New Clothes  New Behavior
Be Kind To One Another & Forgiving

“So, chosen by God for this new life of love, dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility, quiet strength, discipline. Be even-tempered, content with second place, quick to forgive an offense. Forgive as quickly and completely as the Master forgave you. And regardless of what else you put on, wear love. It's your basic, all-purpose garment. Never be without it.”    Col.3:12-14 (Msg)

*  Anger can turn you into someone you don’t want to be
*  Anger can be a healthy emotion
*  Anger in itself is not wrong if it’s handled correctly- (biblically)

Read:  Ephesians 4:26-32

I.   v.26a  Anger is a normal emotion. “In your anger do not sin” (NIV)
“Be angry But do not sin” (RSV)   “Be ye angry, and sin not” (KJV)
*  It is possible to be angry  and  not sin !
a)  Luke 19:45-48  contrast Jesus’ anger  vs  temple priest’s anger
*  Jesus never allowed His emotions to take His focus off of God
*  Human anger tends to be self centered and self motivated

II.  v.26b  Anger must be resolved.
*  Anger can be a healthy emotion, but it’s not supposed to be permanent
a)  (Lu.19:47)  Matthew
21:14 ,15  Jesus served others in their  need !

III.  v.27-29  Why resolve anger?
*  We must take the focus off of ourselves
a)  Proverbs 14:17  foolish actions
b)  Proverbs 29:22  leads to further sin
c)  Proverbs 15:1  turn down the volume

IV.  v.30  Unresolved anger distances us from God
*  Built up anger diminishes the Holy Spirit’s influence in our lives
a)  Genesis 4:1-13, 16  Cain was cursed of God-   Cain’s anger = sin
*  Continued anger in your life limits how God can use you for His purposes-  keeping us from becoming the person HE created us to be !

V.  v.31,32  How should we express our anger?
*  Psychologists would say there are four ways: 1) the manic (exploder) 2) the mute (imploder) 3) the martyr (inflicted) 4) the manipulator (exploiter) BUT-  the Bible teaches us there are three ways: 1) Love 2) Forgive 3) Serve 

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